why men cheat?

“'Tis my opinion every man cheats in his own way, and he is only honest who is not discovered”- Susannah Centlivre

y men sometimes have another women, another lover if he really love his partner and the relationship is quite perfect?

what makes a man look to another woman?is it true that are men really born polygamous?
others say its scientific but some say its men's human nature. they say "boys will be boys they only change their toys"- hmm!, i don't think so.

scientifically speaking, when a person falls in love their body is overwhelmed by the hormone called "Phenylethylamine". This is the big high that you feel, the sickness in the stomach, sleeping difficulty,- the happiness that you really do not want to go away.. This is generally the stage of what people is called "in love" or the attraction stage. There is another love hormone called "oxytocine". After that phenylethylamine rush, the feeling subsides. However, if a deeper connection was met, it is replaced by the oxytocine, which helps create the feeling of bonding. Oxytocine, is released in a period of attachment stage. it is the reason why people involved in a long term or "till-death-do-us-part" relationship.

if women or girls get hurt because of the third party experience they always blame their boyfriend, their husband. we guys really could not blame them sad to say but some guys or men justify their acts by a half-joke excuses like- "im just carried away by my weaknesses", "natukso lang ako", "pag-lumapit ang palay sa manok tinutuka lang ng manok" but of course it depends on the chicken db?., pag-may nk-subo p n palay s manok dapat hnd nya tukain ung palay kht n kusa p itong lumapit, kc nga mabubulunan lng sya pg-sabay-sabay at in the end hindi rn mabbusog ung manok dhil pareho lng nyang iluluwa ung palay kahit ayw p nya, that is sort of greediness.

men by nature, always wanted power, pride, prestige, honor, domination even in ancient ages men like a king always wanted to conquer places, nations and discover many things. men always desire more- more wisdom, knowledge, and possessions. no satisfaction in every success. always wanted much and more, in short- haughty or "mayabang". always wanted to hear praises, selfish in many ways..

mas tanggap o naiintindihan daw ang lalaki ng society if magkaron man ito ng third party kaysa ang babae ang magkaroon o gumawa nito. y? simply because men have nothing to lose and men have more rights and privilege than women. i don't say that having other girl/woman is one of our rights or privilege but women really don't need that kind of pride over men.

three most common reasons why men cheat:

1.) due to his curiosity and wanting to explore different intense feeling with others (woman)- this feeling sometimes is for "one-night-stand" only but turns into "night-by-night-stand" meaning getting addictive. can't rid of it. being adventurous is one-thing and wanting it to experience not necessarily in particular woman but in different moods, places, situations, scenes, positions, and passion.

2.) sometimes bored with his partners- because no more mystery from both of them, excitement to know each other fades. always getting used to it. yung pgk-"bilib" ng partner mo mejo nbwasan n un kc ngk-kilala n kayo ng lubusan. the tendency, bec. of being "proud" to himself, mghahanap ulit ung guy ng babae n hahanga s knya at mgk-kagusto s mga katangian n meron sya. quite weird but the fact is the feeling of being "inlove" again is re-lived and that feeling is difficult to resist when men found another lover.

3.) and most common is peer factor, -influenced by friends or girls temptation. there are some girls or women kc n pumapayag n mkpg-relasyon s guy kht n alm nila n committed na.and some asking to give them a baby. y? u just find out by ur own.. prang nhingi lng ng-souvenirs db?

this behavior of men maybe already accepted or understood by non-conservative people...
sometimes desire is more intense than love, actually the former is one of the biggest ingredients of the latter but sometimes it could influenced the essence of "love" meaning- kht n sobrang mahal mo ang isang tao may point n may hnhanap k p rn n iba, ibang mukha, ibang girl/woman, character, personality, sweetness, or caring. not necessarily na ung una is hindi mo na mahal. minsan lng cguro gus2 lng patunayan ng ibang lalaki na hindi lng iisa ung pwedeng maniwala at mag-mahal sa knila. it is other way of boosting pride and confidence- un nga lng maling paraan...

but what is true love anyway?- they say it is impossible to hurt a person that you really love- indeed, yes. it is a "complete box" of attraction, trust, loyalty, acceptance, understanding, caring, passion and desire. if one of those ingredient is missing, can you call your feeling as true and real "love" with your partner? maybe yes, but definitely no. yes because when both of you getting older than age 60's physical attraction fades but moral and spiritual attractions stay, passion and desire lessen their intensity but never weaken the caress and relationship's integrity. definitely no, bec. lack of any of those ingredients could be weaken your faith to each other where being "unfaithful" enters into that relationship and destroy all your commitment. as you grow older you will bound togehter with one promises, promises that tie the "box" and can brought all the ingredients together to be "completed" as one, never been lessen nor faded...